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Issue 22 Apr / May 2015
Annaliese Dayes
EDITORS & MANAGEMENT Editor-in-Chief: Ruby Mae Moore Beauty Editor: Araminta Pender Fashion Editor: Wardah Sempa Music Editor: Ella December Entertainment Editor: Jan-Marie Revers Love & Sex Editor: Paige Russell Lifestyle Editor: Siane Mullings Design: Aaon Austin, Ruby Mae Moore Presenter: Mya Savannah
JOURNALISTS
Siane Mullings, Charley Jai, Laura Ward, Jasmin Woodward, Maisie Bovingdon, Alice Crick, Patricia Odje, Araminta Pender, Wardah Sempa, Emma Louise Ryan, Vanessa Dos Santos, Victoria Black, Ella December, Zoe Mumba, Ashanti Avril, Yazmin Joy Vigus, Soraya Bongombe, Yashi Banymadhub
CONTRIBUTORS & THANKS TO
The Teenage Cancer Trust, Annaliese Dayes, Dani J, Perfect Cosmetics, The Hair & Cosmetic Company Limited, Clinique, Pink Boutique, Charlotte Tilbury, Rimmel, Nars Cosmetics, Kiko Cosmetics, Stila, Anastasia, Maybelline, NYX Cosmetics, Mac Cosmetics, Riad of Aromas, Soigne Nails, Vedicline, Percy & Reed, Bitchy Online, Stylist - Karis Anita Levy & Pav Niijar, Photographer: Amber Annette Hawgood, Model: Charli-Emma, Asos, Missguided, Boohoo, Warehouse, Asos, River Island, Converse, Love Saves the Day festival, Tramlines Festival, Isle Of Wight Festival, Croatia Rocks Festival, Wireless Festival, Love Box Festival, Calling Festival, British Summer Time, We Are FSTVL, Glastonbury Festival, Somerset House Summer Series, Bestival, V Festival, South West Four Weekender, Reading Festival, Fazetees.
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Editor-in-chief: Ruby Moore ruby@amormagazine.co.uk t: @TheRubyMaeMoore Beauty Editor: Araminta Pender araminta@amormagazine.co.uk t: @mintypender Fashion Editor: Wardah Sempa wardah@amormagazine.co.uk t: @wardahsempa Music Editor: Ella December ella@amormagazine.co.uk t: @EllaDecember Entertainment Editor: Jan Marie Revers jan@amormagazine.co.uk t: @JMRevers Love & Sex Editor: Paige Russell paige@amormagazine.co.uk t: @BabyFacedPaige Lifestyle Editor: Siane Mullings siane@amormagazine.co.uk t: @sianeiam Presenter/Interview Equiries: Mya Savannah mya@amormagazine.co.uk t: @myasavannah_ Press: press@amormagazine.co.uk General: info@amormagazine.co.uk To advertise email: sales@amormagazine.co.uk Twitter: @amormagazineUK Instagram: amormagazineUK Facebook: Amor Magazine UK
CONTENTS HEALTH p.4 Work out alternatives for the gym hipsters
p.5-6 Sexual Health Screenings p.8-13 Smoothie Recipes BEAUTY p.15 Titillated by Tattoos? p.16-17 Spring/Summer 2015 Celebrity Hair Accessory Trends
p.18-19 Sun-Kissed Skin: Refresh, Repair and Renew
p.19-20 Get the Look p.21-22 Editor’s Pick FASHION p.24-25 Low Brow, High Fashion! Does Moschino embrace being a ‘Chav’?
p.26-30 Fashion Shoot p.31-32 Bikinis To Suit Your Shape p.33 All About That Denim p.34-35 Gym Wear Summer 2015 P.36-37 PINK FOR S/S 15
ENTERTAINMENT p.46-48 Festivals Of The Season! p.51-52 Festivals on A Budget p.52-53 Black, Talented, But British
p.54-55 Film Diaries LOVE & SEX P.56-57 Let’s Talk the Clitoris p.57-58 Just My Lingerie p.60-61 The Conundrum of ‘You Complete Me’
p.61-64 Post Honeymoon Survival Tips
LIFESTYLE p.64-66 Stupid Girls p.67 Consent: An Attempt To Debunk The Myths
p.68 How Can We Become More Productive Whilst Multitasking?
p.69 The Scary Side of Uber
38-43 COVERSTORY ANNALIESE DAYES & DANI J MUSIC p.44 Not For The Radio p.45 Empire
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HEALTH
Work out alternatives for the
gym hipsters
Words : Siane Mullings
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s we all know, the gym is going to be heavily populated this time of year and even though you may want to improve your lifestyle the gym crowd may not be your thing. So we’ve compiled a short-list of alternative workouts that take you away from machines and double up as great hobbies:
Yoga/Pilates
Yoga is steadily becoming a more popular extra curricular workout. It encourages flexibility, it helps with stress by calming your mind and over time you develop tone and muscle, when lifting your body weight.
Dance
Anyone who stays on the dance floor all night knows that dancing is a real workout! Perhaps a Salsa class in a bar, a Hip Hop dance class, Tap, or Contemporary. It can be anything. You can even up the ante by wearing small wedged heels during a class to work out the legs and glutes.
Marathon
Marathons are probably a lot less
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scary than we think. Marathon prep and training is a great way to push yourself without having to enter into a race
Polercise
Yes, pole dancing! This workout is probably as close to a weight lifting gym session as you can get. Like yoga, your body becomes your weight. You develop great upper arm strength, steel abs and the results are almost instant.
Kickboxing
One of the most important aspects of learning a self-defence skill - is that you’re better equipped to handle yourself in compromising situations. You can also release any built up frustration during your workout. Working out doesn’t have to be a task, in fact it’s supposed to be fun! All you need is an hour a week to get started then you’ll be addicted in no time.
SEXUAL HEALTH SCREENINGS Whether you’re sexually active or not, you must look after your body as well as your general health and this should include having sexual health checks. Take responsibility, folks! Protect yourself from transmitted diseases: make sure you are sexually aware not just sexually active! All you need to do is attend your local G.U / G.U.M (genito-urinary medicine) clinic, fill out a form, wait to be screened, then confirm how you would like to receive your results and you’re done! Discreet and very straightforward. Opening times and days vary as well as the waiting time to be seen upon arrival so, you should call in advance to make enquiries. Here is a list of UK based clinics and their contact numbers.
Newham General Hospital Glen Road Plaistow London E13 8SL Tel: 020 7363 8145 C&RH Clinic – Loxford Polyclinic 417 Ilford Lane Ilford Essex IG1 2SN Tel: 01708 503838 - Appointment Line Market Street Health Centre 16-20 Market Street Woolwich London SE18 6QR Tel: 020 8301 8951
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Maidstone Hospital – G.U.M Clinic Hermitage Lane ME16 9QQ Tel: 01622 2257 13
The Manchester Centre for Sexual Health 280 Upper Brook Street Manchester M13 0FH Tel: 0161 276 5200
Leeds General Infirmary Sunnybank Eing Great George Street Leeds LS1 3EX Tel: 0113 3926 762
All Saints Medical Centre 2 Vicarage Road Kings Heath Birmingham, B14 7RA Tel: 0121 237 5700
Don’t worry if there are none listed for your local, or nearby area, you’re nearest hospital should have a walkin centre and if not, call your GP Surgery and ask a receptionist for the address of your nearest G.U.M clinic. Or, visit www.nhs.uk Simple! The most important and amazing thing is that it is all entirely confidential and is usually FREE!!
New Croft Centre Market Street East Newcastle upon Tyne NE1 6ND Tel: 0191 229 2999
Researched by Charley Jai @MsCJ80
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Bristol Sexual Health Centre Tower Hill Avon Bristol BS2 0JD Tel: 0117 342 6900
HEALTH
Lamb With A Cranb erry, Tomato and Thyme Crust Lamb is a great source of protein and the cranberry gravy gives a lovely warm feel to it. Researched by : Laura Ward Ingredients for Cranberry gravy • 1 clove of garlic, crushed • 1 bottle of rosé wine • 1 large sprig of fresh thyme • 4tbsp cranberry sauce • 2 tbsp caster sugar • 25g butter, olive oil spread can be used to make it healthier.
Ingredients for Lamb • 2 garlic cloves • 1 red onion, chopped • 1 leek, sliced • 1 green pepper sliced and deseeded • 50g sun-dried tomatoes • 3 tbsp cranberry sauce • 2tbsp thyme leaves • 3 racks of lamb, chined. Recommend asking your butcher to do this for you • Pinch of sea salt • Ground black pepper
Method 1. Preheat the oven to 200C/180C fan/gas mark 6. Place the garlic, sun-dried tomatoes, cranberry sauce and thyme into a food processor using it to form a smooth paste. Season well with freshly ground black pepper. 2. Trim most of the fat off the lamb. Spread the cranberry mixture generously onto the outer side of the lamb to coat evenly. Put the crust side up onto a roasting tray, season with a pinch of sea salt and a generous amount of ground black pepper. 3. Boil the kettle and pour a small amount of water in the tray around the lamb. Add the pepper, sliced leek and onion to the water in the tray. 4. Place in the middle of the oven for 20 minutes for medium-rare or for well-done 30 minutes. If the crust starts to burn cover lamb loosely with foil. 5. Whilst the Lamb is cooking, this is a good time to prepare the cranberry gravy. Put the garlic, rose wine and thyme into a large pan, bring to the boil and boil rapidly for 15 minutes or until reduced by half of the liquid. Strain, discard the thyme and return the wine to the pan. Add the cranberry sauce and caster sugar and stir over a low heat until the sugar has dissolved. Set aside. 6. After the lamb is cooked, take out from the oven. Transfer it to a warm plate and leave to rest for 5 minutes. Meanwhile, pour the rose wine mixture into the roasting tin and bring to the boil, scraping up all the pan juices into the gravy. Whisk in the butter until glossy and season to taste. Cut each rack of lamb into cutlets and serve with the cranberry gravy, roasted or mashed.
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Lemon and Lime Risotto
Ingredients • 2 shallots • 1 stick of celery • 60g unsalted butter • 1 tbsp olive oil • 300g risotto rice • 1 litre vegetable stock • 1 unwaxed lemon and 1 lime, juice and zest • 2 sprigs rosemary, leaves picked and finely chopped, plus extra to garnish • 1 egg yolk • 4tbsp parmesan, grated, plus more to sprinkle • 60ml double cream
This Risotto is for the days when there is the light blue sky and a small breeze, but the chill factor is still there. The creamy texture fills you up keeping the energy going for the cold day, and the lemon is refreshing to keep the day beaming. Researched by : Laura Ward
Method
1. Place the shallots and celery into a food processor. Do not leave food processor on, start and stop the machine quickly until they are a finely chopped mush. 2. Heat half the butter, the oil and the shallot and celery mixture in a wide saucepan, and cook to soften the mixture (approximately 5 minutes.) Make sure the mixture doesn’t start turning into a brown colour. 3. Add and mix the rice in. 4. Heat the stock in another saucepan, keeping it at simmering point. 5. Pour in a cup full of the stock into the rice and keep stirring until the stock is absorbed. Then add another cup full and stir again, continue doing this until the rice is al dente. You may not need all of the stock, equally, you may need to add hot water from the kettle. 6. Mix the lemon and lime zest with the rosemary into the risotto, and in a small bowl beat the egg yolk, lemon juice, parmesan, cream and a pinch of black pepper. 7. When the risotto is ready (- when the rice is no longer chalky but still has some bite) take it off the heat and add the bowl of eggy lemon and lime mixture, and the remaining butter and season with salt to taste. Serve with more grated parmesan if you wish. It is ready to dive in.
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HEALTH
Banana and Nutella Cake Bar with a Zing
This cheeky cake idea, is good for the pallet and for the calorie counting. chocolatey! Researched by : Laura Ward Ingredients for Cake 200 calories per slice • 150g softened butter • 75g light soft brown sugar • 50g golden caster sugar • The zest of 1 large orange •½ 1 tbsp vanilla extract • 3 large eggs, beaten • 175g self-raising flour • 2 medium bananas, approx 180-200g peeled weight • 2 tbsp Nutella
INGEDIENTS FOR CAKE Icing • 75g icing sugar • 1 tbsp cocoa powder • 25g butter, softened • 1 tbsp milk • 1 tbsp Nutella • Small hand full of grated cocoa beans
Method 1. Pre-heat oven to 180C/160 fan/gas 4. Line an 18cm square baking tray. Grab a bowl and cream together the softened butter, sugars and vanilla, until pale and fluffy. Beat the eggs into the mixture, a small bit at a time, adding a spoonful of the flour to avoid curdling. Sift the remaining flour into the bowl, and fold in gently. 2. Pound the bananas in a bowl with a fork, making sure no large pieces remain. Fold into the cake mixture, adding the zest of the orange. Spread half the mixture into the bottom of the tin. 3. Gently warm the Nutella in a small saucepan or microwave. Mix the grated coco beans in with the Nutella (add as much as you desire depending on how chocolaty you want it.) Using a teaspoon, dot the Nutella across the surface of the cake mixture in the tin and use a sharp knife or toothpick to marble it evenly throughout. 4. Cover the Nutella layer with the remaining cake mix and spread evenly. 5. Bake for approximately 45 minutes, or until the cake starts to shrink away from the edges of the tin. Remove from the tin and leave to cool on a wire rack. 6. While the cake is cooking, this is a good time to prepare the icing. Sift the icing sugar and cocoa powder into a bowl. Rub the softened butter into the icing sugar using a spatula, then add the milk and Nutella. Whisk with an electric mixer. 7. Once the Cake has cooled down add the icing on top evenly spreading it out. There you have your Nutella banana cake bar. For decoration add chopped hazelnuts on the top and cut in to slices of your choice.
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Rhubarb and Straw
berry Trifles
Ingredients for Trifle 291 Calories per portion • 8 soft amaretti biscuits This refreshing sweet dessert really Ingredients for the custard hits the spot. It will keep you satisfied from • 2 tbsp golden caster sugar craving any other sweet things for the rest of the • 2 tbsp custard powder • 4 tbsp corn flour day. Good for the portion control. • 300ml milk Researched by : Laura Ward • 2 medium egg yolks • 1 vanilla pod, slit lengthways Method • 200ml carton creme fraiche 1. Preheat the oven to 200C/fan 180C/gas 6. Ingredients for Roasted fruits Rinse the rhubarb then slice into 4cm lengths. • 300g rhubarb, ends trimmed Scatter them over a large, heavy baking tray • 2 tbsp honey with sides, sprinkle over the 2 tablespoons of • 2 tbsp golden caster sugar, plus 2 sugar and toss together. Spread the rhubarb tbsp out on the tray then roast for 8-10 minutes • 200g strawberries, halved or or until just starting to soften. Scatter the quartered depending on size strawberries over the top, sprinkle over the 2 Ingredients for topping teaspoons of sugar and drizzle 1 tablespoons of • 200g double cream honey. Roast for 4 more minutes until the fruits • Toasted almonds are just tender but still holding their shape and the juices are syrupy. Remove and leave on the baking tray to cool. Drizzle 1 tablespoon of honey again once cooled. The Roasted Fruits are now ready. 2. Mix the sugar, custard powder and corn flour in a medium saucepan with 2 tablespoons of the milk to make a runny paste. Beat in the egg yolks then stir in the rest of the milk. Scrape in the vanilla seeds, then drop in the pod. Cook, stirring constantly, over a medium-low heat, until the mixture is thick. Just before it boils, remove from the heat and stir in the creme fraiche until smooth. Pour into a bowl, cover the surface with cling film to stop a skin forming, cool, then refrigerate until completely cold. That is the custard prepared. 3. When both the custard and roasted fruits are ready, crumble the amaretti biscuits into 4 serving dishes of your choice. 4. Meanwhile, whip the cream till soft. Layer the fruits over the amaretti biscuits, along with some of the leftover juices. Remove the vanilla pod from the custard, then spoon the custard over the fruit. Finish with a dollop of the cream and a sprinkling of chopped almonds.
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BEAUTY
Eat Your Skin Healthy I n order to achieve radiant, healthy skin the old saying ‘you are what you eat’ definitely applies. Keeping a diet of healthy nutrients can improve your skin, as well as reduce blemishes and acne. To nourish your skin from the inside out, follow these golden nutrition rules…
1. Eat your five a day - Eating
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your five-a-day is vital for healthy skin, packing in five vegetables and fruits can really change your skin for the better. They contain powerful antioxidants that protect skin from damages, including the sun. Green vegetables such as kale can help to gain an even skin tone as well as help with normal skin development.
2. Super Smoothies - Super
smoothies are a perfect way to gain your five-a-day by helping you to gain nutrients as well as tasting great! You can also add Chai seeds and other vitamins which contribute to better health and skin. (Check out the Smoothie recipes in the health section for some ideas)
3. Water - Drinking enough
water each day not only keeps your body hydrated but can help hugely to clear the skin of spots
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and blemishes. Your skin needs moisture to stay flexible - not drinking enough can cause it to appear dry and wrinkly. Drinking six to eight glasses a day can help you on your way to clear, hydrated skin.
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4. Vitamin C - Vitamin C is
a powerful antioxidant that can be found in blackcurrants, blueberries, kiwi fruits and oranges. It’s vital for your immune system but it also produces collagen which makes the skin plump.
5. Selenium - Selenium can be
found in brazil nuts and whilst working alongside vitamin C and D, studies show it can protect against cancer, age spots and sun damage to the skin.
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6. Omega 3 - Foods with Omega-3 are full of essential fatty acids to obtain through your diet. You will find omega-3 in oily fish and plants. It can help aid skin conditions such as eczema. Words : Jasmin Woodward
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Titillated by
Tattoos?
TREND ALERT: Presenting this year’s must-have beauty accessory - the flash tattoo!
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lash tattoos are back just in time for the return of the sun, and this year they’re bigger and better than ever. The collection of metallic, jewellery inspired temporary tattoos surfaced briefly last year with celebrities such as Beyoncé and Vanessa Hudgens sporting them at Coachella, and now with the help of brands such as Flash Tattoo and Divine Ink you can get the look this summer. The collections range from small symbols such as arrow markings and signs for those opting for a subtle tattoo trial, to elegantly written quotes and more decorative designs that veer towards resembling artistic henna and tribal patterns. The temporary tattoos come in metallic colours (silver and gold), so you can look completely bejewelled with this tattoo-as-jewellery phenomenon. Try wearing them up the arm to appear like a stack of bracelets, around the neck and chest like a necklace, or even around your ankle. Flash tattoos are perfect for those heading to festivals next season as an alternative to rings and other jewellery which more often than not end up lost or misplaced. Having trialled and tested the Flash Tattoos I’ve found that the gold hue works best to blend with all skin tones. Why not try a mix of the stencilled-on tattoos with a few of your own favourite jewellery staples and put people to the test; an amalgamation of both will certainly enhance the illusion that all is real! Maisie Bovingdon @BovingdonMaisie http://divineinklondon.com/ http://www.flashtat.com
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BEAUTY
Spring/Summer 2015 Celebrity Hair Accessory Trends A
change in hairstyle is quite possibly one of the most recognisable transitions many high-profile celebrities love to embark on to create a new look. Take Kim Kardashian’s recent chop or bleach blonde colour or perhaps Beyonce Knowles brand new, blunt bob. So, what exactly is it that celebs are doing this Spring in order to keep up with the ever-changing hair trends of 2015, whilst successfully altering their own signature styles? The answer is simple: by accessorising to the max! From simple, chic hairstyles to slightly more avant-garde looks, if you’re searching for some hair-spiration, then these gorgeous top models and A-listers have got you covered…
Beautiful beach
- Inspired hair accessories by Valentino.
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Bohemian
Festival hair (the more feathers, the better!) Shailene Woodley absolutely rocked this slightly avant-garde looking hair accessory at the London premiere of ‘Insurgent’ this March.
Florals?
For Spring/Summer? - Ground breaking. Prove Miranda Priestly wrong and accessorise like the stars with these gigantic floral headbands. This season’s trend is all about exaggerated, oversized prints with accessories to match, setting this style far from the spring cliché. Check out Emmy Rossum rocking the floral headband and Lupita Nyong’o in Harpers Bazaar. Words by: Alice Crick
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BEAUTY
Sun-Kissed Skin: Refresh, Repair and Renew
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inding the ultimate skin care products this Summer doesn’t have to be a battle; it’s all about finding the right product to suit your skin type. From oily to dry, bags to blemishes, tinted to tanned, no matter what your skin type we all deserve to be kissed by the sun this Summer. So let’s reach for complexion perfection. Moisturiser has to be the make-up bag’s most classic and treasured piece; laying
Words : Trifonia Asmar
down the foundations for the perfect face. For dry skin types moisturising is essential, and with Clinique’s Superdefense Daily Defense Moisturiser, retailing at £39, you can wave goodbye to flaky, tight skin and say hello to a hydrated glowing face. And for oily skin types, don’t think you don’t need to moisturise as much...you do! You may not think it but when using drying products your skin will actually produce more oil to balance it out. Luckily for us Pink Boutique’s Lemongrass and Camellia Moisturiser £27 can save us from making this mistake - combined with the natural antiseptic of lemongrass and aloe vera for fresh, clear skin.
This summer it’s time to introduce the make-up cleansing remover. Easy, effortless and effective! Taj Micellaire Water Makeup Remover, £16 is at the top of the list with its purifying and revitalizing finish, the Himalayan Miscella water comes from organic sources ensuring that the water you apply is 100% natural.
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The primer will be your best friend this season. You’ll be left looking radiant when using the Charlotte Tilbury Wonder Glow, £38.50 as part of your daily routine. However the award for the most profitable primer this season has to go to the bargain beauty booster Rimmel’s Fix and Perfect Primer, at just £6.99. Doing the job just as well for a minimal price, you really can’t go wrong.
GET THE LOOK Words : Patricia Odje, PBelle
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Belle gives us some product must-haves for a fierce makeup look this Spring. Hey guys! So, when people think Spring, they think coral, nudes, pinks. But why can’t we remain fierce this season?! Let’s switch it up a notch. I absolutely loved Rihanna’s fierce look at the Lakers game at the beginning of this year.
Subtle eye makeup and bold lips are always a striking combination! Here are a few products I recommend to achieve this look…
FACE
As the sun starts to approach a primer will
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BEAUTY be one of the must-haves in your cosmetic bag. Ensure your skin has a protective layer and your makeup lasts longer with Rimmel Stay Matte Primer. Primer (£5.99) - www.boots.co.uk The NARS Weightless Foundation really is what it says; absolutely weightless. Only a few drops are required in order to achieve full long lasting coverage that looks natural and flawless. Foundation (£32.00) www.narscosmetics.co.uk
Cover up those dark circles with this cheap and cheerful concealer from KIKO cosmetics called Full Coverage Concealer before highlighting and contouring, a cheaper alternative to one of the high end concealers! Concealer (£7.50) www.kikocosmetics.co.uk Rhi’s cheekbones are enhanced beautifully with contour, so why not try Stila Shape & Shade Custom Contour Duo kit for a sheer coverage to create well defined cheekbones. It is waterproof too! Contour duo kit (£31.00) www.stila.co.uk
EYES
I suggest Anastasia Beverly Hills
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Perfect Brow Pencil that creates a naturally fuller eyebrow. There are a wide variety of eyebrow shades to choose from such as blonde, taupe and black brown so this product is definitely a win-win for all skin tones. The eyebrow brush at the end can be used to smooth the harsh edges (especially at the beginning of your brows!). Brow pencil (£15.50) www.cultbeauty.co.uk Maybelline Eye Studio Gel Liner is my absolute FAV. Ever had trouble getting your eyeliner to appear straight? This Gel Liner will solve your problems! It is so easy to use so even if you aren’t a makeup pro your eyes can still look gorgeous. Gel liner (£7.99) - www.superdrug.com
LIPS
NYX Cosmetics lip pencils are their best sellers from their entire makeup collection. For a smooth and bold edge try NYX Slim Lip Pencil in shade ‘SPL827 Never’. To finish off you can’t go wrong with MAC Mineralize Rich Lipstick in shade ‘All Out Gorgeous’. I love this shade as it has a hint of deep purple mixed into the brown shade. Lip pencil (£3.50) www.nyxcosmetics.co.uk Lipstick (£20.00) maccosmetics.co.uk
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he sun’s out, our legs have resurfaced and make-up becomes minimal. Spring is a season of refreshing and repairing the tired, damaged skin we’ve been hiding all Winter. It’s time for a beauty detox! Introducing three naturally inspired beauty brands to check this Spring/Summer…
Riad of Aromas
Totally organic, Riad of Aromas has just launched their range this year, catering for all skin types. I’ve been using the Cherry & Juniper Berry Hot Cloth Cleanser (£16), Grapeseed & Ylang Ylang Rebalancing Face Cream (£20) and Melissa and Roe Geranium Rebalancing Bio Mist Toner (£18) as a three step routine for oily skin, and I’ve noticed a visible difference already! My favourite has to be the toner which is perfect to keep in my bag for a spritz of hydration on the go. All of the
Editors Pick by Araminta Pender
ingredients used are natural and actually feel fresh when applied. I definitely recommend the collection for those with sensitive skin! http://www. riadofaromas.com/
Soigne Nails
I picked up one of their polishes at Professional Beauty London and instantly fell in love. Available in over 30 on-trend colours and super chip - resistant, Soigne have not only created a fantastic product but also a beautiful brand (check out the packaging!) Not to
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BEAUTY mention the polishes are made from 85% of plantsourced natural ingredients, containing a carcinogenfree formula, no animal testing and every polish is vegan friendly! The pastel coloured Macaroon gift set is perfect for the Spring season (£19). Polishes are priced at £11 each, available at www.soignenails.com/
Vedicline
The indulgent Gold Ojas Scrub (£20) will leave you feeling like royalty whilst you purify your skin - as well as walnut oil, the fine grain scrub contains saffron extract and gold dust creating a shimmer effect on your body after use. What I love most about this product is how light and fluffy the formula feels. Vedicline uses active and natural ingredients to ensure visibly healthier hair and skin. Check out the whole collection at: www.vedicline.com/
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What’s Hot This Season? Introducing Your New Beauty BFF...
Percy & Reed Eau My Goodness Shine & Fragrance Spray
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ntroducing a new way to wear your favourite fragrance, Percy & Reed have developed their very own hair perfume. Designed as a fragrance and shine spray rolled into one, spritz onto styled hair for glossy tresses morning and night. The delicate rose scent works to freshen dull hair – perfect for a refresh between washes or added glamour for a night out. What makes Eau My Goodness different is that it doesn’t leave your hair greasy unlike the after effects of other oil based formulas. A product not to be missed- I dare you to dazzle your friends with your new luscious locks. Available now for £22 at www.percyandreed.com. Words : Beauty Editor Araminta Pender
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FASHION
Low Brow, High Fashion! Does Moschino embrace being a ‘Chav’?
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hat word begins with C, contains four letters, and is one of the most offensive words in the English language? It’s definitely not the word you think it is, so let me help you out… CHAV. The definition of a ‘Chav’ is a young ‘lower-class’ person, known for their ‘reckless and rude’ behaviour. They usually wear (real or imitation) designer clothing on an extreme level and purposely embrace the OTT (over the top) look… sounds classy right? Lol. Well many people have called Moschino ‘chavy’, but is that really an offence to Jeremy Scott? The American designer is about making a statement, and maybe this is partly his way of making it. Scott’s Autumn/Winter 14 collection with the ‘McDonolds’ design is a great example of this. I am not surprised the terms ‘Chav’ and ‘Moschino’, are found in the
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same sentence… a little bit ‘degrading’ maybe? However since Jeremy Scott always delivers with no limitations; including over accessorizing, his outfits on the runway - It’s to be expected. This is a designer who is known for his loud and proud designs, therefore adding a lot of chains, and making his collection quirky but still old school may look ‘chavy’. Comparison to an actual ‘Chav’, Jeremy Scott glammed the Moschino version where, an outfit that almost looks ‘Chavy’, looks very ‘Chic’.
have glamorized this look is what we call a statement! Materialistic Chic, asked the public on their opinion of Jeremy Scott’s brand Moschino, and the findings were people didn’t want to admit it but the brand came across as ‘chavy’. Jeremy Scott himself, can come across as a ‘chav’, which could seem as an insult, but let’s be honest - he pulls it off! So does Moschino embrace the term ‘Chavy’? Of course they do and it suits them well! Words: Fashion Editor, Wardah Sempa
Above is an image of what people think a female ‘chav’ is. Looks cheap, with her fake nails, cigarette, huge gold chain and her hooped earring and the fact that Jeremy Scott may
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FASHION
Creative Director: Wardah Sempa Model: Charli-Emma Photographer: Amber Annette Hawgood Make Up Artist: PBelle Stylist: Karis Anita Levy & Pav Niijar
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FASHION
Creative Director: Wardah Sempa Model: Charli-Emma Photographer: Amber Annette Hawgood Make Up Artist: PBelle Stylist: Karis Anita Levy & Pav Niijar
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Creative Director: Wardah Sempa Model: Charli-Emma Photographer: Amber Annette Hawgood Make Up Artist: PBelle Stylist: Karis Anita Levy & Pav Niijar
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Creative Director: Wardah Sempa Model: Charli-Emma Photographer: Amber Annette Hawgood Make Up Artist: PBelle Stylist: Karis Anita Levy & Pav Niijar
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Summer, Summer, Sum-mer time... Remember the tune? Picturing Will Smith? Bikini clad girls and a load of guys sat round cars? Nah? - Probably just me. But you know what, this song is probably one of the songs that comes into my head when I’m thinking of Summertime. Along with a picture of a girl with an amazing figure in a beautiful bikini on a beach somewhere. Roll on 2 seconds later and even more vivid image of myself in a bikini, most likely with a bag of cheetos in hand and then I start to feel violently sick. This happen to you too? If not, I’d imagine that you’ve already got a great body or you’re just totally up on your fitness game. However, at the moment I am not. Dark nights and warm food are currently where it is at...Thus why I give to you the below information. For each and every woman we can have a period, time or even flash of our lives where we don’t feel physically our best. When we don’t feel this it can sometimes be translated to our confidence and then onto how others can perceive us. Every woman comes in different shapes, sizes, heights and weights and there would be no beauty in the female form if we all looked the same. Saying this, when we go away, however great we think our body is (or not), we always need a bikini that fits our body shape. As without this we’d end up wearing something that just makes us not only look a littttle bit strange. Vain you may say? But oh so totally true. Comfort in a bikini is key, but in finding this comfort you most likely will need to find the perfect fit too. Therefore I give you below an option for each body shape out there, as who doesn’t love to have a little helping hand? I know I do.... so just where are those body-toning tips for Summer? (And possibly something to help sew my mouth shut). Amor May 2015 31
FASHION
How to identify your body shape -The basic shapes;
Hourglass - Larger at the top and bottom with a slim line waist. Tip: To wear a supportive top which holds in place. Allowing the waist to be on show for true definition. Bikini Lab, £27.50 Inverted Triangle - Broader at the top with slimmer middle through to hip ratio. Tip: Wear an all-in-one suit with halter neck detailing elongating from the neck to the waist. Creating a longer frame to draw the eye to the middle section rather than the broader shoulder. Asos, £18.00 Rectangle - Boxed shaped with a 'thicker' middle section. Tip: Wear a full swimsuit with cut out middle to create a waist like silhouette. Asos, £32.00 Pear - Larger lower portion to top. Tip: Wear a two-piece or even full with a darker shade, ties or thin fastening. This creates a smoother line along the hip to show more skin without cutting off the leg. Asos, £22.00 Apple - Rounded middle, centered primarily around the waist. Tip: Wear a swimsuit with roached waist detail to give an allure of a slimmer waist. Along with an eye catching neckline to draw attention to another area of the body. P.s Black is always a winner Marie Meli, £30.00 And you know what ladies, always remember to have fun as confidence and happiness in your body is what really makes you a winner! P.S Can you tell I love a swimsuit?! Words : Emma Louise Ryan
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nly a few might know that none other than Levi Strauss made the first pair of jeans in 1873. What was once worn in majority by miners has gone on to be a staple piece in everyday fashion. Fast-forward to 2015 and we can see a multitude of ways to wear denim. This summer probably marks the most diverse and desirable denim trends. Amor has chosen the ones to keep an eye out for this summer season.
Be bold
with double denim, mixing shades of dark
and light washes.
For the fresh days and nights the wide leg and short hem denim trend has become a favourite on runways by the likes of Margiela and Gucci. Giving a masculine, street chic edge. The patchwork denim trend brings out the inner artisan with its DIY touch. Last year saw the rise of frayed denim, made famous by Marta Marques’ Topshop collaboration and it is safe to say it is a look that has not worn off. For lazy days, a denim dress paired with colourful trainers or pair of white Birkenstocks sandals can make you look effortlessly stylish. This summer is all about being desirable and daring in denim. Words : Vanessa Dos Santos
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FASHION
GYM WEAR
SUMMER 2015
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itness and health has never been so talked about and as a result, gym wear has been an ongoing trend of 2015. Whether you’re a gym newbie trying to get motivated or a regular gym goer, there is something for everyone, Gym wear has taken over both the high street stores as well as the online fashion industry. Achieving the perfect bikini body has got even easier this Spring with affordable gym clothes taking over the shops. Primark’s new active wear and sports collection has expanded even further. Primark is your number one stop for purse friendly gym wear. You can get a whole new gym kit (we are talking even down to the phone holding arm strap and water bottle) on a budget. Missguided launched its very successful Missguided active range in January followed closely by Boohoo.com’s launch of Boohoo Fit. Both of these online stores offer on trend and affordable gym wear in a variety of styles and colours. Boohoo’s collection offers print heavy sport kits guaranteed to make you the trend setter of the gym at extremely purse friendly prices, the running leggings are just £14! There's more! The gym collection isn't just for girls, there’s a collection for men too! Treat your man to some new gym wear from the collection for a bargain present, guaranteed to please any gym lovers. Missguided have now bought our trainers for just £20, offering a nice alternative to the more well known brands such as Nike. These online stores offer next day delivery, meaning you could be hitting the gym in your new gym clothes as early as tomorrow. For newbies all of these gym ranges offer gym wear in basic colours, for confident gymers why don’t you brave it and embrace the Aztec prints and neon colours which are so on trend right now and guaranteed to getting you in the spirit for Summer 2015. Words : Victoria Black
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(1) Phylon Trainers in Grey contrast (£20.00/ Missguided) http://www.missguided.co.uk/catalog/product/ view/id/163673/s/phylon-outsole-trainers-grey-contrast/category/1650/)
(2) Ruby Printed Sports Crop Top (£10.00/ Boohoo) http://www.boohoo.com/boohoo-fit/ruby-printed-racer-sports-crop-top/invt/ azz18958)
(3) 7/8 Leggings by Adidas (£39.00/ Topshop)
http://www.boohoo.com/boohoo-fit/ruby-printed-racer-sports-crop-top/invt/ azz18958)
(4) Active printed full length gym leggings (pink) (£15.00/ Missguided) (www.missguided.co.uk/catalog/product/view/id/153741/s/ activewear-printed-full-length-sports-leggings-pink/category/1650/)
(5) Active mesh panel gym leggings grey (£15.00/ Missguided) (missguided.co.uk/catalog/product/ view/id/153759/s/activewear-meshinsert-sports-legging-grey-marl/category/1650/)
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FASHION
Pink for S/S 15! R
ihanna turned heads last month as she headed to Good Morning America in a head to toe pink ensemble. Whilst she has never been one to shy away from fashion forward outfits, she really did nail it yesterday. The full on pink look definitely turned heads and I think if anyone can pull it off Rihanna certainly can! Her ultra-feminine look was comprised of a flattering slim-fitting bubble gum pink jumpsuit, matching jacket and a fur stole. Her entire look was taken directly from French fashion house Pascal Millet. The look is part of the Fall 2015 collection which hit the runway just last week at Paris Fashion Week. Words: Victoria Black
Pascal Millet: Hues of pink are everywhere this Spring/Summer and whilst you may not be brave enough to pull off a head to toe, legally blonde pink look, you can still get the look with these pink picks straight off the high street:
1) River Island Bandeau Jumpsuit ÂŁ27.50 (sale)
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2) Missguided A Line pink skirt £20.00
3) Dusky Pink Two Piece Coat: £35.00 Trouser: £25.00
4) Warehouse (@ASOS) Utility Jumpsuit £60.00
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COVER STORY
Annaliese Dayes On America’s Next Top Model, Dating & taking over the desert with model Dani J
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COVER STORY
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had the pleasure of interviewing America’s Next Top Model Annaliese Dayes and her best friend Dani J who was a mentor on ITV show Model Mayhem & Misfits. The two beauties decided to embark on the life changing experience of Rally De Gazelle, a 9 day all female motor race rally in the Moroccan desert. They have limited resources and without mobile phones, GPRS or essentials. They explained that this is going to be one of the biggest challenges they have ever done but it is all for charity and will be completely rewarding. As I had two absolutely gorgeous models in front of me, of course we had to talk about MEN! I got the inside scoop of the girls ‘types’ and
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they also shared some very personal stories about their worst first dates. It was truly refreshing to interview such beautiful, humble and honest hard working women. I wish the girls best of luck in the future! On coming back from the rally, Annaliese and Dani J comments on how they found the experience: “The whole adventure felt like a wild dream. So many challenges, obstacles and boulders; packed into every day. Who knew we’d get caught in a full blown blizzard? Yes an actual blizzard! I saw things i’d never thought i’d see and did things I never thought I would do. But at the end of it I’m proud that I proved I was able to exist outside my comfort zone; and I really hope that that can inspire
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others to live on the edge just once in a while.” Annaliese Dayes “The rally was truly an adventure and opportunity of a lifetime... I could have not imagined the challenges that I encountered; everything from sleeping 10 ft from wild camels, digging the car out of sand or pushing out of mud and learning how to pee in the desert. Nothing however amounts to the greatest idea of being able to set an example and empower others. If we can do this, you can do anything... Seriously.” Dani J
To celebrate and give people a little piece of the desert Annaliese and Dani have created a signature fragrance which is inspired by their journey... You can find their signature fragrance named ‘28’, at the perfume studio: www.theperfumestudio. com Words : @MyaSavannah_
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MUSIC
Amor Magazine loves Not for the Radio
Words : Music Editor, Ella December
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e are only four months into 2015, and exciting things are happening in UK’s urban music scene. As our homegrown stars such as Skepta are tipped for global stardom, it’s the perfect time for a new platform to emerge. At Amor we are loving the new series Not for the Radio (NFTR). NFTR is hosted by Duane Jones (AKA Vis), Posty from GRM Daily and Chams from Face4Music. The three enigmatic hosts get UK’s finest artists to lay bare their secrets and clear up any rumors. Apart from titillating tales about the music industry, there is also a lot of wisdom dropped. Lethal Bizzle who is known for his legendary grime hit POW, revealed exactly how much money each artist on the track was paid. Bizzle’s interview focuses on money matters, he reveals that he’s been broke and to avoid that he only buys what he can afford twice.
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NFTR’s latest interview with So Solid’s Megaman was interesting and insightful. Apart from talking about the music business, he also revealed that he used to date American singer Kelis. It’s reminiscent of America’s Breakfast Club with how the hosts probe the interviewees and ask them uncomfortable questions. NFTR shows a different side to many of our favourite artists and helps us get to know them better. We look forward to more eye-opening and exciting shows form the series.
Why Empire will be missed
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have been streaming the Empire musical drama series and have just finished the first series! The US TV show that has been dubbed a “HipHop version of Glee”, has finally come to end for now. Empire has been labelled stereotypical, accused of not being inclusive due to the majority black cast and some have even called it “coonery”. I strongly disagree with Empire’s detractors; it’s an addictive show that tackles ignored issues and it will be sorely missed. Empire centres around a HipHop music and entertainment company, Empire Enterprises. The despicable Lucious Lyon played by Terrence Howard heads Empire. He has three sons, the eldest Andre who plans to run Empire but lacks any musical talent. His middle son is Jamal who is a gifted singer but his father shuns him because he’s gay. Then his youngest son is Hakeem, an aspiring rapper, who is unfortunately mediocre but is the apple of his father’s eye. Their mother is the feisty ex-convict Cookie played by the amazing Taraji P Henson. Lucious Lyon isn’t just all things evil; he’s a representation of hyper-masculinity that dangerously runs rampant in the black community. His rejection of his son – Jamal’s sexuality,
forcing him to get married and pushing him in a trashcan is a harrowing narrative that is deeper than just the shock factor. Another poignant moment is when eldest son Andre is diagnosed with the bipolar disorder and Lucious stridently says that black people don’t have these sorts of problems. The stigma around the mental illness in the black community is an important taboo that needs to be addressed. I am all for Empire showing that mental health has no colour. Empire is also rollickingly good fun. The twists and turns have me clutching my chest. Some people have complained about the use of guest stars but I love it and see it as a display of black excellence. The finale attracted more than 17 million viewers a huge growth from the pilot’s views. Empire will be sorely missed. The only thing I’m happy I won’t have on my screen is Hakeem and Camilla (Naomi Campbell) romantic scenes. Empire will be available for its UK audience on channel E4 on Tuesday 28th April 2015. Words : Music Editor Ella December
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ENTERTAINMENT
FESTIVALS OF THE SEASON! he one thing that we all get
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excited about, when the weather decides to turn into the Mediterranean, is festivals! I mean; you do not have the complete summer experience without attending at least one crazy celebration. Amor’s here to source out the festivals of 2015! Words : Fashion Editor, Wardah Sempa
WE ARE FSTVL
(30-31 MAY 2015) http://www.wearefstvl.com/
BRITISH SUMMER TIME @ HYDE PARK (18–28 JUNE 2015) http://www.bsthydepark.com/
CALLING FESTIVAL 2015
ISLE OF WIGHT FESTIVAL
(4TH JULY 2015) http://www. callingfestival.co.uk/
(11-14 JUNE 2015) http:// isleofwightfestival.com/
CROATIA ROCKS FESTIVAL
(19-23 JULY 2015) http://www. croatiarocks.com/
WIRELESS
(3-5 JULY 2015) http://www. wirelessfestival.co.uk/
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LOVE BOX (17-18 JULY 2015)
http://loveboxfestival. com/info/lovebox-tickets/
GLASTONBURY FESTIVAL
(24–28 JUNE 2015) http://www.glastonburyfestivals.co.uk/
SOMERSET HOUSE SUMMER SERIES (9 JULY 2015) http://www.somersethouse.org.uk/music
READING FESTIVAL
V FESTIVAL 2015
(28-30 AUGUST 2015) http://www. readingfestival. com/
(22–23 AUGUST 2015) http://www.vfestival.com/
BESTIVAL 2015
(10-13 SEPTEMBER 2015) http://www.bestival.net/
SOUTH WEST FOUR WEEKENDER 2015
(29-30 AUGUST 2015) http://www.southwestfour.com/
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Festivals On A Budget
Words : Zoe Mumba
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pring has quite literally sprung up on us; which means we will soon be spending a lot of time (and money) at summer festivals. However, ticket prices are increasing year after year with some festivals charging over £200 per ticket. Thus, for those of you looking for a weekend of great music without the hefty price tag; we have put together a list of some of the best budget festivals in the UK this summer.
1. Love Saves the Day
23-24th May 2015 Eastville Park, Bristol The festival boasts an all-star dance line up of Azealia Banks, Gorgon City, Redlight and Julio Bashmore to name a few. Weekend tickets are currently selling at £80 which is less than half the price of most major UK festivals.
2. No Tomorrow Festival
6-7 June 2015 MNEK, John Newman and Jessie Ware are all rising British stars who have already been confirmed to play alongside established legends such as DJ EZ this Summer. Weekend tickets are currently priced at £65 and there are still many more acts that are yet to be announced.
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3. Tramlines festival
24th - 26th July 2015 Sheffield Promising to be bigger and better than ever, the festival will headline Basement Jaxx and Hip-Hop legends Wutang Clan with support coming from artists from a variety of genres including the mathcore band Rolo Tomassi and one of the most innovative DJs in dance music, Erol Alkan.
Weekend tickets are currently being sold for just £30 which means they will be selling fast.
TALENTED. But.
British S
amuell Benta, creator of the hit web-series All About the McKenzie’s, released a video-rant online earlier this year effectively stating that he feels there are far less opportunities, together with a huge lack of support, within the acting field in Britain. He then fled to America in the hope of finding the success he hasn’t found in the UK as an actor. Since the 1950s, it has been a well known fact that Black actors have struggled more so than any other race to get a foot in the door of the entertainment industry and once there, it seems their careers are short lived after having usually been typecast in stereotypical roles such as ‘the
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violent thug’, or as a background artist. The UK has also seen black talent as fitting enough for roles considered ‘behind the scenes‘, like that of a radio show intern/assistant however, not so much as an on-screen presenter on mainstream television. Is this all about to change though? Once upon a time talents categorised as ‘Ethnic’ would only receive the smallest parts (on stage/screen). Nowadays, although things have massively improved for black talent in the UK, black performers now appear only to see real success if they make the move to Los Angeles (the land of dreams supposedly). The likes of Idris Elba (Luther, Mandela: Long Walk To Freedom), David Oyelowo (Lincoln, Selma), Naomie Harris (Pirates of the Caribbean, Skyfall) and Sophie Okonedo (Hotel Rwanda, The Secret Life of Bees) are British actors who each saw their profiles raised after pursuing opportunities across the pond! So, what is the real issue for those who are Black, talented but, British? What prevents them from getting a look-in, as it were, with leading roles that do not call for them to portray a stereotype? I think Naomie Harris summed it up beautifully in an interview when she said, “I think it’s quite simple, really and that’s work. I think there just isn’t enough work in England to sustain a career long term unless you want to do one of the British soaps and stay on that. We have to travel across to the States because, they have a much bigger market; it’s a much bigger industry and therefore there are a lot more roles for us and that’s why actors end up going to the States.” She has a valid point. After all, the need for more films, gritty TV drama and with them diverse character opportunities has long been the desire of numerous British actors who are serious about their craft. That said a lack of support within the Black and EthnicUK talent circle is also a problem. If we were all a little more supportive of one another I’m sure that would play a massive part in many more being able to achieve their dreams of success! Words by Charley Jai | @msCJ80
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ENTERTAINMENT
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FILM DIARY
morelles, This year’s movie scene looks good! Here’s a list of the must see films for April - June. Words : Laura Ward
Fast and Furious 7 - 3rd April, Action
APRIL
Starring: PaUl Walker, Dwayne Johnson, Vin Diesel, Jason Stratham A dead man’s brother seeks revenge on the Toretto gang.
Paul Blart: Mall Cop 2 - 17th April, Comedy Starring: Kevin James, Raini Rodriguez, Eduardo Verastegui, Nicholas Turturro We follow Blart and his daughter whilst they attend the guard expo in Las Vegas. Blart is continuously mocked by the casino security until he tries to take down a group of dangerous art thieves. Will he succeed?
The Longest Ride, 8th April, Romance Starring: Melissa Benoist, Scott Eastwood, Britt Robertson The Longest Ride is based on another Nicholas Sparks novel where the life of two loves spark a distant memory for an old man. He reflects on his own lost romance of his beloved wife whilst being trapped in a car crash.
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MAY Pitch Perfect 2 - 15th May, Comedy, Musical Starring: Anna Kendrick, Rebel Wilson, Brittany Snow We follow Fat Amy and Becca as they go through their senior year at Barden University. This time they enter a competition - an American team has never won. Are they about to make history?
San Andreas 3D - 29th May, Action Starring: AStarring: Dwayne Johnson, Alexandra Daddario, Colton Haynes In the horrible aftermath of California’s massive earthquake, a rescue helicopter pilot takes it upon himself to make the trip across the state in order to rescue his estranged daughter.
Ted 2 - 26th June, Comedy Starring: Seth Macfarlane, Mark Wahlberg, Amanda Seyfried, Liam Neeson Ted and his partner in crime stumble across the biggest problem yet. Ted has to prove that he is a human in order to become a father.
Pitch Perfect 2 - 15th May, Comedy, Musical Starring: Chris Pratt, Judy Greer, Ty Simpkins We follow Fat Amy and Becca as they go through their senior year at Barden University. This time they enter a competition - an American team has never won. Are they about to make history?
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LOVE & SEX
Let’s talk the Clitoris the case. In most situations the woman has to masturbate in order to climax.
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requently women are told we are not ‘real’ women if we cannot orgasm during sex. Whether we’re being mislead over the ‘this is how sex should be’ scenes from a film or the glossy pages of a magazine telling you how to receive the perfect orgasm, is not all true. Recently stumbling across the webpages of the Huffington Post, I came across a podcast hosted by Carina Kolodny and Noah Michelson on the subject matter of ‘The Power Of The Clitoris.’
More than 80% of females do not experience orgasms whilst having sex The concept that a woman is frigid if she cannot climax during intercourse is prominent. But the reality is, more than 80% of females do not experience orgasms whilst having sex - it may even be higher! So why are we not being told this? When it comes to sex scenes in a film all you see is the lead up, sometimes during and then a massive orgasm coming from both the man and woman followed by laughter of satisfaction. But this isn’t always
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It seems like the majority of sex that is happening is for the benefit for the man, and perhaps us women are to blame for this. It is in our interest, as women, to show our male counterparts exactly how to make us orgasm and unfortunately, this is increasingly less accomplished through penetrative sex. Whether you search for it on the internet, listen to your mum and dad’s advice or maybe even attend a sex education class, no one is telling you that the clitoris is purely for pleasure. Yes you heard correct – the clitoris is purely for pleasure – there is no other purpose for this amazingly powerful instrument! In the podcast, Sophia Wallace touches on the fact that ‘’we’re being educated on how to prevent pregnancy and HIV, but we are not being educated on Sex’’. We need the films and the glossies to tell us the truth - Sex can be messy, smelly and most of the time, it’s the woman’s job to give herself an orgasm through the help of her female friendly toys or
her fingers, and this is completely normal!! A lot of the time, sexual encounters come to an end because the man has ejaculated, and this is where women sell themselves short. It seems like the majority of sex that is happening is for the benefit of the man, and perhaps us women are to blame for this. It is in our interest, as women, to show our male counterparts exactly how to make us orgasm and unfortunately, this is increasingly less accomplished through penetrative sex. Instruct him to focus on the clitoris – the most powerful pleasurable instrument on a women’s body! Words : Laura Ward
Just My Lingerie H
ave you ever wanted to do a little more? Surprise yourself and be completely spontaneous? Well I decided to do just that... It was an anniversary! Let’s just say I wasn’t confident enough to buy him a gift. I didn’t want to come across too emotionally attached. Also, what do you buy for a guy that has everything? Well you don’t... You give the best procession you have to offer - Your body! I rummaged through my sexy lingerie draw and found an Ann Summers piece (Gift from my ex). As women do, I tried on about 3 different combinations and took about 20 selfies of each outfit, then pulled out all my shoeboxes, to find the perfect shoes to match the outfit. I settled on the black open toe stilettos. My outfit was complete - black baby doll split at the nipples, crotch less thongs, and black shimmer stockings with a lace detail at the thigh. I covered the ensemble with a long black fur coat and I was ready for business. Due to the celebration, I drew for one of my favourite bottles of champagne (Moet Chandon) accompanied by two champagne flutes, the latex free condoms (SKYN) and hit the road. As this was the first time I had ever decided to surprise a guy with sex, I was a complete nervous wreck; the sheer adrenaline and excitement kept me going. I had never even done this for a boyfriend, so I could not stop thinking why him! As I pulled up outside his house; I dialled his number... no answer! At this point, the anxiety got the better of me… I reach for the glove compartment and took out my flask of rum (Appleton). Champagne in hand, I shamelessly took 4 shots from the cap, fixed my coat around me and headed for the door. I rang the bell and waited impatiently. My body
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LOVE & SEX sizzling, my heated body collided with the cold air. In that moment I realised what do I do now! I didn’t plan this far ahead; I didn’t even think I would be brave enough to make it to his front door and now I’m standing in his kitchen completely flustered and too shy to remove my coat, praying for the alcohol to kick in. He enters the kitchen and looks me up and down... His eyes and cheeky smile is telling me he wants to see more… I slowly remove my coat and take a twirl so he can see the full outfit. I put my coat down and quickly deflect the attention to the bottle of champagne. Gagging to turn the heat up a notch, I pop the bottle and pour us both a glass. He is gawping at me and in order to accept these compliments, I need to drink this glass as quickly as possible. He twirls his finger on my nipple really slowly and I can’t help but accentuate my grin. Resting his champagne glass on my nipple, he kisses me aggressively backing me up on to the kitchen surface. As he’s about to slide both fingers in, I reach for the of champagne. 4 shots of rum and two glasses of champagne in 30 minutes... I realise I may have crossed my tipsy line. We fumble around and by this point I’m just begging for him to put it in. He makes me wait! I feel him edging me lower to go down on him, trying my hardest to maintain my posture I resist and stumble slightly. He takes the hint, turns me round and thrusts himself inside of me. Numb from the alcohol, I can feel how wet I am and my body is weakened by the feeling. I wouldn’t say I had the night I was expecting... Words : Ashanti-Avril
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LOVE & SEX
The Conundrum of ‘You Complete Me’ I
f I only had those Jimmy Choo shoes, if I only got a promotion, if I only had a thousand Twitter followers, if he only liked me back… We’ve all been there. You walk by a shop window or bump into an old crush and you feel that pang, if I had you – I would be complete. I’ve been thinking about the connotations of ‘you complete me’ for a while now. The idea that we need certain people or things in life to fulfil us otherwise we are insufficient. When I was a kid I used to daydream a lot about love. It was kind of like my hobby, mainly spurred by noughties chick flicks and songs by the Backstreet Boys.
I used to imagine love was the missing puzzle piece to my fragmented tortured teenage soul. That love would heal all my emotional wounds, define my place in society and make me feel complete. In my teens, my boyfriend became my best friend, my family, my partner in every aspect of my life. I grew up with this notion that love and validation from another person would fulfil me, and for a while it did. It was not until years later when we broke up that I was faced with the hard truth: no one can complete anybody else. And it’s unfair to expect them to. The concept of ‘you complete me’ can be toxic because in reality there is not one damn thing, person or commodity that can
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complete us, except for our own selves. If you feel insecure about your body, then a relationship will not fix those insecurities, it will only haze them for a while. If you feel like a relationship will stop you from feeling lonely, guess what? If you’re with the wrong person, it’s the loneliest thing in the world. Living life with the philosophy of ‘you complete me’ is like filling up a bucket with a hole in the bottom. It’s never enough. It’s conditional. It’s temporal. It places your happiness in the palm of someone else’s hand. It’s that faint but mighty voice that whispers a million little deceptions: ‘without this I am lacking’, ‘If you don’t love me, I am not loved,’ and ‘I am not enough on my own’. Well lady, I want to tell you, that maybe you don’t always feel ‘complete’, maybe you don’t have your shit together all the time. Maybe you are a work in progress BUT, my friend, you are enough. Believe me. Your life isn’t the abridged version of you, it’s the full hardback copy with a bonus chapter. Leaning on another person so much that you can’t function without them isn’t love, it’s reliance, it’s dependence, it makes love a necessity when it should be a choice. Love should always be a choice. A choice of actions, a choice of words, a choice of commitment. How about instead of ‘you complete me’ we go with ‘you don’t complete me… but I want you anyway?’ Maybe not movie worthy – but still romantic, right? Yazmin Joy Vigus | @yazminjoy / @aliljoy | www.aliljoy.com
Post Honeymoon Survival Tips W
hen we think of perfect relationships we often look to the stars (or our grandparents for some). We've all come across the term celebrity power couples. Brad and Angelina; Victoria and
David, Will and Jada, Kim and Kanye, Meek and Nicki and not forgetting the most powerful one of them all… Jayonce (Jay-Z and Beyoncé). They have it all; fame and money, beautiful families,
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LOVE & SEX
exotic holidays and most importantly a solid union. For these power couples, happily ever after is less about growing old gracefully and more about living forever young. They say it’s not good to compare your relationship to others, but surely it can’t be that wrong to try and mirror a model relationship like Will and Jada’s? Besides we can all learn from other people’s experiences and save our selves a lot of heartache. Have you ever asked yourself ‘what’s their secret?’ I know I have. Is it wealth; good looks or talent that makes these couples a force to be reckoned with? Another key question which pops into my head from time to time is, ‘what makes
them last?’ Don’t get me wrong, we’re all different and unique, so there is no way one set of relationship rules could apply to us all. There is however certain etiquettes that we can learn to help our relationships grow. I can probably guess what you’re thinking. What about LOVE? (Two hundred or so words deep and she hasn't even mentioned the word…) Well that’s because love alone simply isn’t enough. The secret to a lasting relationship is commitment and hard work. Unfortunately love only gets you through the honeymoon phase. The secret to any ‘happily ever after’ story is, learning to cope when the hearts and flowers disappear. Luckily for you guys I’ve come up with a simple (yet effective) list to help you survive the post honeymoon period.
1. Communication.
Communication is key to every good relationship. How many times
have you heard that one right? Well it’s true. Don’t assume your other half is a mind reader or ‘knows you well enough’ always let your feelings/views be heard. This is best way to ensure that they are understood and respected. A big part of communication is also listening and understanding what’s being said. So learn to talk less when appropriate.
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2. Arguments. Every
couple argues. If you don’t there is something seriously wrong with you. They can be prevented (sometimes) but sooner or later you will argue about everything from sex to whose turn it is to make the dinner. When it comes to arguments I say it’s always better out than in. Don’t take things too seriously because chances are you won’t actually remember what it is you were arguing about.
3. Sex. When it comes to sex
it’s either good or bad. Anything in between is basically bad. Boring sex is very bad so don’t let it get too predictable. Sex is supposed to be fun and spontaneous not a chore to attend to at least once a week. Try new things (together) and don’t be afraid to ask for what you want. The longer you’re together, the better you’ll understand that freaky sex is always good sex.
4. MONEY. If you have
it, great! Just be wise with it. If you don’t have money or are experiencing financial difficulties, remember to work as a team. The worst feeling in the world is being broke and alone. Always keep your money separate. Not because you shouldn’t trust your other half, but rather to ensure one of you has
something saved for a rainy day. You’re only a power couple if you both get money. Don’t depend on one party to be the breadwinner.
5. CHASE YOUR DREAMS. The most
damaging factor to any relationship isn’t infidelity it’s resentment. Power couples are great individuals who join forces. Remember to chase your own dreams first and let them chase theirs.
6. RELATIVES/ FRIENDS.This is a really
tricky one. It’s human nature for us to vent, and it’s more than likely that the person we turn to is a loved one. Just be mindful of what you say about your partner/relationship when venting. What you’re feeling might just be in the moment and it’s a lot harder for the third party to forgive and forget.
7. SOCIAL MEDIA.
. I reckon I could write an essay on the disadvantages of social media relationships. There is nothing good about posting your relationship status, business, issues or whatever on Facebook. It’s CRINGE, you’re giving people a front row seat to your private life and it makes all the
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LIFESTYLE single people feel really crappy. Airing your business out in public only puts a strain on your relationship so don’t do it. Some people don’t even have their other half on social media so really you’re expressing your undying love to your followers, which is kind of creepy.
8. COMPROMISE.
Most relationships don’t make it past the honeymoon stage because people are not willing to compromise. Compromising is not about changing yourself for someone else, it’s about meeting in the middle for a bigger goal/ purpose. People change and so do situations. Don’t get too stuck in your own ways or you’ll get left behind.
9. LET SLEEPING DOGS DIE. We’re only
human, mistakes will be made. However NO good can ever come from bringing up the past. If you’ve chosen to forgive, learn to forget.
10. TRUST. Last but
definitely not least, trust. I cannot stress how essential trust is in a relationship. Not just trusting your partner won’t let you down or hurt you; but also trusting yourself enough not to do the same. Once the trust is broken things can get very difficult but if you can overcome this you can pretty much face anything. Words : Soraya Bongombe
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STUPID GIRLS Words : Soraya Bongombe
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his article contains explicit material, please proceed with caution.” Stupid girls. What is it about a sexually liberated female that gets people talking? Why is it okay for a man to have more than one partner (sometimes at the same time) but not okay for women? We glorify a man who is (sexually) experienced but a woman with a past is deemed as ‘damaged goods’. There’s no arguing that sex in a relationship plays an important role. What isn’t clear, is why there is so much concern surrounding single women and sex. The prevalent usage of the term Milf (Mother I’d Like to F***) indicates a slight change in societal views; but how accepting are we of mothers who dare to be sexy?
How accepting are we of mothers who dare to be sexy?
Recently, celebrity single mum Amber Rose took to social media to defend her friend and fellow single mother Blac Chyna. An online article critiqued Blac Chyna’s choice of evening attire and dubbed it unacceptable for a
The issue with that is it implies your ‘sex’ is something that should be protected for a ‘greater cause’. It suggests that your ‘sex’ shouldn’t be used at your leisure for your pleasure but for a man’s. mother. Amber Rose argued that although they are mothers first; they are also ‘sexual beings’ so should be seen as such. The issue isn’t just with mothers but with women in general. I have to admit, I too am guilty of judging other women on Instagram for wearing too much make up or not enough clothes. There’s a difference between wanting to feel sexy and sleeping around. Wearing revealing clothing is not synonymous with being a whore, but for many of us that’s just how we see it. Are men and women really equal? If you’ve answered no or ‘to an extent’; this signifies the root of the problem. All females (above the age of consent) should be able to use their sexual freedom as they please without being judged or labelled. Long gone are the days of prosex feminism. An early 1980s movement which believed that
sexual liberation was an essential part of a woman’s freedom. Opinions are no longer only divided between the sexes. As I just pointed out with my own views; women can’t seem to agree on the topic either. Contrary to feminist beliefs of exploitation; some women boast complete control of their bodies and decisions as sexual beings. Some women even use their bodies for material gain. “Yeah my hair, and my ass is fake, but so what! I get my rent paid with it, and my tits get me trips to places I can’t pronounce right He said he’d keep it coming, if I keep my body tight. And them bitches stay mad ’cause I’m living the life.” (Lyrics from “Mascara” by Jazmine Sullivan) Is there such thing as too much sexual freedom? It’s becoming more common for “normal” young
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LIFESTYLE done – a real life Barbie doll. Many of us will label her as “stupid”, but as we work our butts off for months for a few days in the sun; she attains the same flight tickets in just one night… But to that young girl I pose one question; what makes this man or the next stick around for more? The problem with treating sex as a commodity is; any and everyone has it. Do we refer to these girls as “stupid” because they’re dumb or are we quite simply (as the song puts it) mad? Is it fair to say that while you and I work hard for our nice things; they work smart? Not all young women are using their sexual freedom in the same way. In
Is it fair to say that while you and I work hard for our nice things; they work smart?
women to use their bodies to get ahead in life. It would be naive to label this is a new trend. That being said we don’t normally hear about these girls so close to home. We can all think of at least one celebrity who has gained overnight fame as a result of their performance in an (adult) home movie. So it’s no surprise that young girls believe it’s ok to trade their bodies for expensive weaves or exotic trips. We probably all know a girl like this. She’s the one with the pretty face and round bum. Hair, make-up and nails are always
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fact more young women are opting out of sex all together. Their reasons for sexual abstinence vary from spiritual or religious beliefs to quite simply ‘waiting for the right guy’. The issue with that is it implies your ‘sex’ is something that should be protected for a ‘greater cause’. It suggests that your ‘sex’ shouldn’t be used at your leisure for your pleasure but for a man’s. This aim here isn’t to promote equal rights for women because there is very little we can do to change societal views. We can’t change the way women are judged for being sexual beings. You can however adjust the way you think. So I ask you, how do you express your sexuality? And is it any of our business?
CONSENT: AN ATTEMPT TO DEBUNK THE MYTHS The National Students’ Union (NUS) Women’s Campaign has teamed up with Sexpression UK, to increase the accessibility to information about relationships and sex. It is perhaps logical to educate, or rather re-educate, the population on what consent is through educational establishments themselves. Consent - defined in painfully simplistic terms - is the act of giving permission to carry out a subsequent act. Consent - defined in painfully simplistic terms - is the act of giving permission to carry out a subsequent act. Yet the term and concept have been manipulated by “lad culture” in universities and a rape culture that permeates through the media into mainstream society. The gradual misconstruing of the word has been the root of the myths that must be detangled in order to establish what does and what does not constitute a ‘yes’. This partnership has seen immense amounts of national success simply by opening up a dialogue that previously bordered on taboo. Entitled the ‘I Heart Consent’ campaign, this nationwide initiative has made its way into multiple university campuses. However, as is the case with almost any social awareness campaign, critics were quick to denounce our attempts to dissipate the myths. When promoting Lancaster University’s Consent Week event on Twitter, I was approached by a critic who highlighted that raising awareness about consent was not the ‘cure’ for rape but after my rather reserved reply in which I emphasised that there were misunderstandings surrounding consent, this Twitter user proceeded to tell me that it is simply a case of ‘lots of people having drunk sex they regret.’ I have to tip my hat to him for being the perfect example of why we need to re-educate, and actually recontextualise, what consent is. Drunk consent is not consent for the primary reason that the person concerned is not sober, and therefore not in the correct mindset to consent. Needless to say, this ideology applies to drug usage too. However, How can we possibly re-establish the true meaning of healthy, consensual sex when our social context itself is littered with such juxtapositions? Hopefully this campaign can open up a healthier dialogue. Words : Siane Mullings, Lifestyle Editor
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LIFESTYLE
HOW CAN WE BECOME MORE
PRODUCTIVE WHILST MULTITASKING? S
ending out emails, creating several copies to make, print and bind for that last minute presentation, gearing up for two meetings all whilst answering the phone. Not bad for a Monday morning eh? According to Harvard Business Review focusing on more than one task can decrease your productivity by 40%. So how do we successfully multitask without wasting more time? Amor tells you how... Words : Laura Ward
Manage your priorities
You just have to accept that your day will not always go to plan, which is why we have to be ready to reprioritise. To save time in the work day make a to-do list at home. It’s important to have two sections, urgent and important. When it comes to unplanned changes, you will have to make a decision on which tasks are pushed back of the queue.
Allow your brain to slow down
By switching from multitasking to just focusing on one thing at a time helps slow the brain. Focusing on one task will help you in the long run as it will avoid twice as many mistakes you may have made through balancing several tasks at once. It will also make you feel more relaxed and in control.
Get your email inbox under control
Emails are the biggest way to communicate as they are almost an immediate response. But that doesn’t mean you have to immediately respond. Go through the list and move emails to a ‘to-do’ file that needs more thought and any events quickly note in your calendar. Organising your emails will help make you prioritise any future work. Make it easy to get yourself started – Instead of trying to tackle a massive project, or several all at once, try to break it down into chucks. Working in little bits can actually help speed up the process.
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THE SCARY SIDE OF
UBER
The Indian government have banned the app-based car service, Uber, after the sexual assault of a female passenger by an Uber driver, who was previously accused of rape, late last year. This move on part of the authorities shows an attempt to mask the more serious issue of a rape epidemic that is pervading the Indian society. Words : Yashi Banymadhub
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ntil this recent attack on a 26 year old woman, Uber was deemed the safest means of transport for women and as the most popular means of public transport amongst women. It was even described by the New York Times as a company that was ‘a greater friend of the urban women in India than the government ever was.’ This isn’t saying much when you consider the lack of action by authorities to tackle sexual harassment. For instance, banning car services have made matters worse by leaving women with less transport options. For example, The New York Times has revealed that despite the fact that Uber conducts background checks, this can easily be avoided with a bribe of under $10, meaning that the safety of women is compromised when they are driven around by potential criminals. Although more people have been raising their voice to oppose sexual assault since the 2012 Delhi gang rape of a medical student; The Safe Cities Delhi Programme has revealed that 92% of women are reported to feel unsafe in public areas which shows that by turning a blind eye to the concerns of the majority of its women, the Indian government is no less of an accomplice to sexual predators that seek to degrade and destroy the lives of Indian women.
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